There was a time I mistook silence for survival. I thought that if I stayed quiet, I’d be safe—from judgment, rejection, and conflict. I wore invisibility like an armour, hoping no one would notice the storm inside me. However, I learned that silence doesn’t protect. It buries.
I wasn’t always silent. My mind was alive with loud, brave thoughts. But gradually, I folded them into whispers, unsure if they deserved to be heard. I blended in, nodded though I disagreed, smiled even when I wanted to scream, and carried the weight of unspoken words like stones in my chest.
Then came the moment everything cracked.
It wasn’t loud or dramatic. It was simple—someone dismissed my truth one too many times. And for the first time, something inside me refused to shrink. My heart pounded, I couldn’t hold in any longer. I spoke: Not to win. Not to shout. But to stand.
I spoke because hiding had become painfully unbearable than being misunderstood. My words weren’t perfect, but they were honest. And in that moment, I realised something powerful—my voice wasn’t something I had to earn. It was mine all along, waiting for me to believe in it.
Finding your voice isn’t about volume—it’s about courage. It’s the quiet rebellion of choosing yourself over being silenced. It’s the strength to say: I matter. My story matters. My truth belongs here. Since then, I’ve spoken up—not always boldly, not without fear—but always with purpose. And every time I do, I reclaim a part of myself I once gave away.
To anyone still swallowed up in silence: your voice is not a mistake. It’s a reflection of who you are. And the world is aching to hear the sound of your becoming.
Mary Jane Magnus
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